Retirement accounts and life insurance skip your will completely. The plan administrator pays whoever the form names, and courts hold them to it. In Kennedy v. Plan Administrator (2009), William Kennedy named his wife Liv as the beneficiary of his DuPont savings plan. They divorced, and the decree said she gave up her claim.
He never updated the form. The Supreme Court held the administrator "did its ERISA duty by paying the SIP benefits to Liv in conformity with the plan documents."[14] The form beat the divorce decree.
That's why the per stirpes election on these forms matters more than the language in your will. Say your 401(k) holds $300,000 and names your three children equally, and two of them die before you. If the form has no per stirpes election and the plan's default pays surviving beneficiaries, your one living child takes the full $300,000 and your dead children's kids get nothing.
With per stirpes on the form, each branch keeps its $100,000. The plan document sets which default applies, so ask the administrator directly.[13]
Two more rules for retirement money. Federal law puts your spouse first: in most defined contribution plans, benefits automatically go to your surviving spouse, and naming anyone else requires the spouse's signed waiver, witnessed by a notary or plan representative.[12] And some programs refuse per stirpes entirely. FEGLI, the federal employees' life insurance program, rejects per stirpes designations. OPM tells federal workers to name each beneficiary directly and handle branch logic in a will instead.[15]
Life insurance follows the same principle: the insurer pays the beneficiary named in the policy. Our guide to what happens to life insurance when you die covers the claim itself.