Loading page
Send this to somebody
Nothing you typed goes with it. Just the tool and the link.
The short answer
On My Terms records how you want the end to go: the setting, the people, the sounds, the treatments you want and the ones you don't. It feeds the legal forms; the advance directive is what makes choices binding. Describe it below, then put the choices into your state's form and tell your decision-maker where both live.
Reviewed August 2026
Make it binding: the advance directive →If you're the one dying, start here →
Before you start
Decide what the end looks like: the setting, the people, the lines you won’t cross. Then say it clearly, in writing. Describe the setting, people, noise, and care preferences that matter to you. Put treatment choices into the relevant state forms, choose an authorized decision-maker where appropriate, and tell them where to find the documents.
Find your state forms →Premium Tool
You don’t control that you die. You control more of the how than most people think: the room, the people, the sound, the choice between more time and more comfort. Decide it now, write it down, and say it out loud. Once you have Premium, your work saves in this browser first and syncs to your account.
Once you have Premium, your answers save in this browser first and sync to your account. Downloaded files stay wherever you save them.