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On My Terms
how you want the end to go, in writing.
You don’t control that you die. You control more of the how than most people think: the room, the people, the sound, the choice between more time and more comfort. Decide it now, write it down, and say it out loud. Once you have Premium, your work saves in this browser first and syncs to your account.
What’s included
- Six guided sections: the setting, the people, the medical lines, the senses, the rituals, and your own words
- A companion sheet for your advance directive: the human wishes the legal form has no room for
- A conversation script for telling your family, built from your own answers
- Answers save in your browser first and sync to your Premium account
- Download either document as PDF or Word, print it, or copy the text
Once you have Premium, your answers save in this browser first and sync to your account. Downloaded files stay wherever you save them.
The short answer
On My Terms records how you want the end to go: the setting, the people, the sounds, the treatments you want and the ones you don't. It feeds the legal forms; the advance directive is what makes choices binding. Describe it on this page, then put the choices into your state's form and tell your decision-maker where both live.
Reviewed August 2026
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What On My Terms helps you do
Decide what the end looks like: the setting, the people, the lines you won’t cross. Then say it clearly, in writing. Describe the setting, people, noise, and care preferences that matter to you. Put treatment choices into the relevant state forms, choose an authorized decision-maker where appropriate, and tell them where to find the documents.
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